Motivation to improve

Quote from an introduction message in my local lair:

I’m fairly new to the community, although I’ve met some of you already. Basically, I read ‘the Game’ like a month ago and now I’ve decided to dedicate my life to being the best pick-up artist I can be. I hope it’s sooner rather than later but I’m planning on giving it a solid year of pick-up. So far I’ve gone out every night for a month and my game is already much better.

Hey bro!

Your efforts and motivation are awesome. I have some questions though – it would be very powerful for your goals if you choose to answer them here. Everything below is from my experience of goal-setting, motivation and general happiness in my life.

The two questions are:
1. What do you want to improve in your life by using this tool of pickup?
2. Why do you want that?

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Honesty in open sexual relationships

Question on my local lair (some wording adapted):

WE SARGE, WE CLOSE, WE START A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP

Then the house of cards blows over. (Recently my girl huffed and puffed and walked away.)

I have had multiple Fuckbuddies over the years. A great proportion of these women fall in love with me.

I DON’T KNOW WHY

I am not overly nice. I see them only in booty call hours.

I KNOW THE THEORY

Outline the rules early. Tell them ‘this will be purely sexual.’ But actually calibrating and getting girls into that reality is different.

SO HOW IS IT DONE?

My answer:

Hey man,

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